Let others live

                          In Indian conditions, especially in non-metro areas , a girl having a boy friend at most of the times carry negative image in his friend circle.This is the way we look at relations. Recently, an article was published in Times of India about the rape incident happened in Pune. A teenage girl wanted to meet his boy friend in a lonely area and he appeared with his friend's gang and the out come is rape and suicide of the girl.

                         In the recent times, every one is observing the impact of western culture in our dating style.Freak-out joints for couples offering a lot of loneliness. We are Indians and we can never say in homes about our dates as Americans do.Lot of variation between us .If a girl wears a slightly revealing clothes, she is a cleopatra for us and if she says 'No' to friendship we offered then she is definitely bad and by chance, if she says 'Yes' ....gone all her image .We praise her beauty before her and back of her..waah..we always speak of the romance we had with her.

      

                       I wont say that every girl is good and I wont say that every boy is bad but there is limit to everything.If she says 'No' we should live it there.I find a few couples , who make promises of marriage in tender age.Marriage in Indian conditions need lot of commitment and you are making promises of marriage at a very little age.Marriage, commitments and responsibilities at tender age always become a burden in later part.

     

                  Everything can be controlled even the hormonal  factors in the body can be controlled by self-realization.Relation with opposite sex always give pleasure in initial stages but break-up gives more pain than that .I witness many people who are facing that pain.The misery is the girls even are ready for a break-up.May be its because of women-empowerment and many gilrs and boys want time-pass relation and time-pass relation includes everything.If both are ready to take it in the same way .its too good but one person takes it other way, the heart-ache starts.

             Whatever it is, Love at first sight may exists but its probability will not be more than 0.01 but infatuation at first sight will be around 50 but intentional drowning will be around 50 especially it is from boys side.I may be poking my nose in others issues by writing this blog but it really makes me think when my fellow friends speak positively with their GF's and negatively in their absence.