Let others live

                          In Indian conditions, especially in non-metro areas , a girl having a boy friend at most of the times carry negative image in his friend circle.This is the way we look at relations. Recently, an article was published in Times of India about the rape incident happened in Pune. A teenage girl wanted to meet his boy friend in a lonely area and he appeared with his friend's gang and the out come is rape and suicide of the girl.

                         In the recent times, every one is observing the impact of western culture in our dating style.Freak-out joints for couples offering a lot of loneliness. We are Indians and we can never say in homes about our dates as Americans do.Lot of variation between us .If a girl wears a slightly revealing clothes, she is a cleopatra for us and if she says 'No' to friendship we offered then she is definitely bad and by chance, if she says 'Yes' ....gone all her image .We praise her beauty before her and back of her..waah..we always speak of the romance we had with her.

      

                       I wont say that every girl is good and I wont say that every boy is bad but there is limit to everything.If she says 'No' we should live it there.I find a few couples , who make promises of marriage in tender age.Marriage in Indian conditions need lot of commitment and you are making promises of marriage at a very little age.Marriage, commitments and responsibilities at tender age always become a burden in later part.

     

                  Everything can be controlled even the hormonal  factors in the body can be controlled by self-realization.Relation with opposite sex always give pleasure in initial stages but break-up gives more pain than that .I witness many people who are facing that pain.The misery is the girls even are ready for a break-up.May be its because of women-empowerment and many gilrs and boys want time-pass relation and time-pass relation includes everything.If both are ready to take it in the same way .its too good but one person takes it other way, the heart-ache starts.

             Whatever it is, Love at first sight may exists but its probability will not be more than 0.01 but infatuation at first sight will be around 50 but intentional drowning will be around 50 especially it is from boys side.I may be poking my nose in others issues by writing this blog but it really makes me think when my fellow friends speak positively with their GF's and negatively in their absence.  

                        

We need development-not separate telangana

                                     Today Times of India has published clear reports of Suresh Tendulkar's commission reports on poverty.37% of population are living below the poverty line and more abject is rural poverty, which is 42% .Orissa,Madhyapradesh,Bihar,Jharkhand,Chattisgarh are the most affected states.Jharkhand and Chattisgarh in list indicates that the partition of them has not increases the standards of living.Reasons may be many but its again proved that separate states cannot be panacea for every problem.

                                    Telangana is a backward area where only 12 lakh acres come under irrigation and there are certain areas in this region where transport,health,education facilities are denied and this region needs and deserves all-round development but dont say that the separate state sanctions everything.In a nation like India where a district is greater than atleast 85 nations of the world, development genesis will not be a roller-coaster ride.It needs ideas,strategy,execution and more over I m sure that separate state is not a strategy for development.Its a strategy of a few demagogues for power.

                                   What it takes for development of Telangana? Dont show the history saying Nehru said this ,State commisions advised this because advises may mis-lead us some times.Its true that development process in Telangana is handicappedand more over many projects which are promised are not yet started and a few irrigation projects started are not in progress.Development of a region should not deny the development of other regions and for that no one can say to take Hyderabad with them in division.

                              The back-wardedness of Telangana is not different from other regions of India of course Telangana is comparatively less developed.The symptoms are different but diseas is same.Corruption,non-transparency, demagoguery and the treatment should cure the symptoms along with the disease and the Quinine is good leadership and fair democracy.

                             Allot the backward package to Telangana along with north costal Andhra and Rayalaseema.Identify other backward areas of the nations and form district governments and empower local bodies.Keep the power of correction in the hands of people , who are going to face the consequences of their action.

                               Leadership is all about ideas and execution and bring the leader out of common man.When we have right to vote, we should have right to correct things.More over bring instant justice law for corruption.Appoint special courts which deal with corruption cases.It may seem as they take most of the money but it doesnt.

                              Whatever the reson may be? Dont undone the work done by Sardar Vallabhai Patel, who created history in the unification process of India without much bloodshed.It was not possible to Italians, which is a small nation and not possible to Germans in such a less time.Its the potential of Indian leadership.Bring that back and form a new India.

                                I would love to say JAIHIND instead of Jaitelangana and I expect my next generation to do it with proud in a safer and healthy India.

Telangana

            After 62 years of independence and 53 years of integrated state, we are unable to progress and if we still feel  that a region is completely backward, whom to blame? what to be done? Another state can be the solution? If it can be the solution, fragment this nation like anything but promise the unprivileged that he will be provided 3 meals a day and basic amenities.

          I anticipate that the condition wont change if we get a state named -TELANGANA . I born in that so-called region which is taking lives of people for its partition. Yeah, the truth is that there are problems in this region but they are not so different from other regions.Hyderabad, which comes under this region is well developed with highest per-capita income and its not completely true that rulers completely neglected this region.A classic example is-majority C.M's till the day in Andhra pradesh is from Rayalaseema, but still region is devoid of good crops and income resources.

         The youngsters who are coming on to the roads doesn't understand that they are destroying their own property.Whats the need of attacking Hyderabad central?There is a way to fight if u feel like. You cant destroy properties like rowdies.I really feel ashamed of these youngsters. In democracy, everyone has given right to fight for their own cause but you have no right to go against others rights.

         Telangana formation is not going to bring any changes in the lives of poor/unprivileged people . It is more a political stunt now.They have been silent for 5 years as Rajasekhar reddy's Charisma was going on(Charisma from public perception point of view,I am against his deeds) and now they have got the chance to show their muscle but their muscle is causing harm to innocent lives.

       I dont know, where from this term of free-zone(regarding Hyderabad) has come from.Is it in the presidential order of 1975 or in the judgment of supreme court? It is no where .Its all demagoguery .There is nothing like that and I dont think this demagogues can arrive at a solution regarding Hyderabad soon.

      I dont know the solution exactly but if anyone ask me for my view, I want to live as an Indian .I may have born in Telangana but its all by chance and I want to die as an Indian and please dont do every bloody sort to show your muscle.Restore the ambiance. Please come to a solution as soon as possible.One man may die because of hunger strike but many are dieing because of him.Its not good for this nation.

                       JaiHind...............Jaihindustan...............All Indians(telangana people ,Andhra people,rayalaseema people, rest of India) are my brothers and sisters.I dont need a separate state and I need a state of unity where food,shelter,clothing,education,health is promised to every individual

My letter to Loksatta regarding Telangana

Dear Jayaprakash Narayan,
For the first time after you entered politics, I am doubting your allegiance to your values.Yesterday, in a news channel I heard that Loksatta is supporting the hartal, Rastharokho etc., etc, in support of Telangana.I dont know whether it is true or not , but I wish its not true.
You said as a responsible citizen we should examine the party/contestant several times before I vote and I want to know your clear-cut ideologies about Telangana.I never expected this party to go against public property even though for a cause or doing things unabashedly like taking middle-way , not explaining truths to the public , being silent for a political cause.
I wholly agree with your statement that the formation of states is not going to help public anymore and if you and the party believe in this ideology, why dont you express it? and when you are projecting your self as the pioneer of better politics, why do u hide away when we are looking at you to explain truths.
We, the youngsters of this nation looked at you with respect all the time.It doesnt matter whether you/your party win or loose in bloody elections but we really expected you to tell the truth all the time , follow the values all the time and we expected you to run the second independence movement for the public not for the party but whats the reason behind your brooding now?
We want a clear-cut answers. When the state is burning like anything for a mediocre cause, you cant sit calm and ideal ,thinking that your statements may harm the party.Believe me, your silence is taking the party away from us.
I dont know whether this mail reaches you or not but if it reaches you,I need an answer for all the questions I posed.I believed you.I trusted you.I supported you and now I am questioning you because I cant sit silent when people are dieing for no reason

Being on track

                      What it takes us to keep on track? I am reckless, careless and everything negative in this world. yes, I was and may be I am but always its not appropriate. I went through a phase of ignorance, instability , sadness, grief, gloom and many unwanted things and I finally came to the range of acceptance. Still, I didnt understand many things, but I remember my mentor's words. 

             

                   Some one awaken me in the middle of the night.I was confused and I learned that things were going against me. What to do? what not to do? I wanted to stand by myself.Stand stubborn .Stand with courage. Stand such to provide strength to others. I managed but its superficial .I cried in the darkness, smiled in the bright light , but I took resolution to realize my mentor's dreams.They are not as simple as they seem. Rather I dont have any blue-print with me  but conviction and dedication, as he said to be my tools

                 I took the decision to stanld by values but many cases , I found myself violating but I trust one day I ll reach the point of absolute.I, these many types in this blog may indicate me as ego-centric but words from heart never search for proper usage and the rules.

             All is well, 

           My pedagogy was superb

            but still miles to go before I sleep again.

          May u all stand with me when I need.

           Thanks for the friends who stood with me when the time is rough .

         Heartful thanks .Special thanks to my IofC-mates.  U r superb guys.thanq

26/11

         " I WAS LISTENING TO THE FIRING AND I WAS HAPPY THAT I WAS NOT THERE AT THAT TIME AND I FEEL SAD FOR THE UNFORTUNATE THINGS HAPPENED AND ACCEPTANCE IS PART OF MY LIFE . AFTER AN YEAR, I WEAR BLACK BADGES IN MEMORY OF THOSE VICTIMS BUT I NEVER ASK THE COTERIE OF BUREAUCRATS ABOUT MY SECURITY AS ACCEPTANCE BECOME MY LIFE STYLE. AFTER ALL, I AM A TRUE INDIAN RIGHT FROM MY HEART"                                                                                                                    

                      A year passed.After the attack, the Taj hotel was resurrected within a month and Sivraj patil was compelled to resign but his inefficiency was never questioned and he was simply spared,providing cabinet status in another form.England team which has gone back canceling 2 ODI's came back and played the tests and the whole cricketing world appreciated their courage

                      Mumbaikar's showed their resilience and an advertisement of Taj group appeared in The telegraph on the eve of reopening-"I HAVE HELD MY GROUND AS HUMAN HISTORY UNFOLDED IN ITS TIMELESS PROCESSION OF LAUGHTER AND TEARS, COURAGE AND COWARDICE,GOOD AND EVIL.I WILL PREVAIL" AS SAID BY TAJ HOTEL.Candle light processions were held.Martyrs like Sandeep unnikrishnan were admired.etc., etc., A year later, again the nation in remembering the days of operation- wearing black badges , parliament observing silence in memory of those victims,a few people demanding for a war with Pakistan,media houses conducting surveys on common man's security and to my surprise around half of the people in metropolitan cities are feeling that they are secure but the situation is not secure.

                    Y.K.Sabhrawal and co. has given a land marking judgment on 11January,2007 about the reforms to be taken place in the police department and they stressed the importance of establishing a civilian division in Police department .These reforms not only curb terrorism but also brings down the crime rate.This judgment was put aside by Sivraj patil but I think, Chidambaram can bring these reforms in the police department and make India stronger and thus not causing any harm to common man of India.

                        Ironically, no journalist or any media house or common man has consistently asked for these reforms after an year of 26/11 attacks. Post-terrorist attack condition is same as that  of previous conditions and if the condition like this ,I or you may the next victim of the terrorism .Raise the voice and ask for the constructive reforms.

                               "I AM AN INDIAN.I AM WEARING BLACK BADGE NOT ONLY IN REMEMBRANCE OF 26/11 VICTIMS BUT ALSO PROTESTING AGAINST MY INEFFICIENT BUREAUCRATS .I NEED A SAFER INDIA AND WE ARE JOINING HANDS AGAINST TERRORISM NOW AND IF YOU WONT BRING THE REFORMS I' LL JOIN HANDS AGAINST YOU, MY DEAR POLITICIANS"

MY DREAM CABINET

            Leadership is all about ideas.When you have ideas and when you can execute them in a right way, the output will be marvelous  and I feel a few Indians can make the  big difference , if they get the opportunity to lead.These are the people who can be the leaders to transform India into a nation providing food and shelter to every unprivileged and making her 100% literate ,0% poverty etc., etc.,

I will try to provide justification for their presence in my dream office.I will try to announce my dream cabinet in 2 lists announcing prime minister in the second list (because I have no one in mind).These people are not selected on the basis of their caste,religion,region or any silly thing and they don't belong to a single party and many of them may not be from politics even(so its dream cabinet).They are selected on the basis of their valuable ideas, previous achievements and their allegiance.

1)MINISTER OF FINANCE

        Montek Singh Ahulwalia

2)MINISTER OF HOME AFFAIRS

        Kiran bedi

3)MINISTER OF HEALTH AND FAMILY AFFAIRS

         Jayaprakash Narayan

4)MINISTRY OF POWER

          Suresh prabhu

5)MINISTER OF COMMUNICATIONS, BROAD CASTING

         Sam pitroda

Other cabinet minister status without any portfolio at present is given to

MAN MOHAN SINGH

NARAYAN MURTHY

ARVIND KEJRIWAL